What Men Secretly Want
“Southside with You” Movie Review
My daughter and I went to see the movie, “Southside with You” a movie about the first date with President Barack Obama and his wife, gorgeous wife, First Lady, Michelle Obama.
I thought the movie was too short. The actor Parker Sawyers who portrayed President Obama and the beautiful actress, Tika Sumpter , who portrayed First Lady Michelle Obama did an excellent job capturing the idiosyncrasies of the President and First Lady.
The dialogue in the movie is juicy, intelligent, and inspiring.
My daughter did not want to see the move but enjoyed it very much. She said that the movie made her sad because the universe does not create men like President Obama anymore--men who are willing to woo and fight for a woman’s love and trust. She said men today don’t want a challenge—they just want to sleep with you—not date you. And when you deny them sex they give up quickly to pursue the girl who will give him what he wants without a challenge.
One of the lessons that life has taught me is that what men secretly want is a challenge because they are hunters. The mightier the beast, the bigger the game, the more they have to go through to conquer and win their prey-- the deeper they fall in love with who they are as man—and this act of self-love bubbles over into everything in his life—especially the woman who helped him find and discover the greatness within himself.
Men secretly want a woman who tells him the truth no matter how much it stings because as human beings we all grow, evolve, and learn from each other’s truth.
Men secretly want a woman to decline sex early in the relationship so that his heart, his manhood, and his mind can have enough time to align with his truest intentions for you.
Men secretly want a woman who believes in her own self-worth enough to leave him if he does not prove himself to be worthy of her love. People have a tendency to abuse and misuse things that they don’t feel like they deserve.
Men secretly want a woman who honors, supports, and respects the highest version of who he is as a man regardless of the his financial status. He wants a woman to see the wealth in his character, not his bank account as this was beautifully illustrated on the first date of President Barack Obama and First Lady Michelle Obama in the movie “SouthSide of You.”
Men secretly want a woman to see the wealth in his character, not his bank account as this was beautifully illustrated on the first date of President Barack Obama and First Lady Michelle Obama in the movie “SouthSide of You.”